Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Update on Us...

So I haven't been very good about updating our blog lately, and the reason is because I just had a baby
Surprise!
  Just KIDDING!
This is our nephew, Vaughn, who comes to play twice a week!
But a new baby would be a good excuse for not having time to blog, right? Too bad I don't really have an excuse, other than we've just been really busy and I haven't been very good about taking pictures of anything we've been up to, so I haven't had much motivation to do any updating on here.
Anyway, Ethan has been keeping busy with school. Either I never did my homework or I just don't remember having any when I was his age, but he seems to spend his weekdays on schoolwork. He spends nearly 7 hours at school, comes home and does homework, eats dinner, and goes to bed...then does it all again the next day. I feel like I don't see much of him until the weekend. I'm sure it's not going to change as he gets older, other than I probably really won't see him until the weekend.
However, he is really enjoying school and has made a lot of really great friends. He loves to spend his recesses playing either kickball or "wall ball" which is basically bouncing a ball against a wall and trying to be the first to catch it before it bounces. 
I'm pretty sure he made it up.
He is the STAR STUDENT in his class this month and brought home a poster to complete about himself. Other than the basic info like age, who his teacher is, and who is in his family, some of the questions were:
When I grow up I would like to be: a police officer
I show others I care by: helping
My favorite color: blue and orange
My favorite animal: dog and lion
My favorite food: hamburgers
My favorite book: Transformers
My favorite sport: flag football (even though he has never played this, but he is signed up to play starting in March)
My favorite thing to do in school: art and painting
My favorite thing to do at home: have snow ball fights (see previous post)
Three colorful facts about myself: I like to play golf, I like to play Transformers, I like to play flag football.
And the BEST answer on the whole poster...

I am a star because: I share with others and I am cool and I am a good helper.
I really love that kid!
Kamden started preschool the week after Christmas and was so excited to go...I wasn't too sure about the preschool because I'd had a hard time finding one that would work since he has speech therapy at the Elementary school Tuesday mornings, and most of the preschools were full since it was halfway through the school year. When I was trying to find him a preschool I got a flyer in the mail from one that was just starting up and went Monday, Wednesday, Friday. I got him enrolled and he lasted about two weeks.
The girl that was teaching was doing the preschool in her home and had been babysitting but she wanted to transition from that to doing preschool.
In the interview it had been my understanding that she was going to quit babysitting and just do the preschool, but instead she hired someone else to come in and babysit the really young kids while she did preschool. The babysitting was in the next room and every day Kamden would tell me about the "crying babies" and that they would come in the preschool room and play and that they were really noisy. 
I couldn't decide if I should have him keep going and just see if it worked out, that maybe she just needed some time to transition. I prayed about it and the next day when I went to pick him up he was sitting in his chair crying because he had just wanted to play and not have circle time.
I tried telling myself that he needed to keep going and learn that there are times to play and times to listen and learn, and that he really needs to understand that before Kindergarten. But then I realized that this was the answer to my prayer, that the environment there was just too chaotic for him and he wasn't getting the structure that he needed.
A friend of mine brings her little girl to a preschool run by her husband's cousin, just a few minutes from our house. Thankfully she had an opening and I was able to get Kamden started the very next week. He is doing so much better and is learning and he always has so many positive things to talk about when he comes home. On his first day when I picked him up and asked how it was he said, "There were no cryin' babies!" He learns much better without any distractions, and I am so thankful for answers to prayers, even though they may come in small ways that I sometimes try to explain away.
Owen is doing better being home while his brothers get to go to school, which he wasn't thrilled about at first. But now that Kamden only has school Tuesday & Thursday, and "Baby Bon" is here to play, Owen isn't feeling like he is being left behind so much. I had hoped to potty-train him soon, but he is still having issues with constipation and that makes it even more difficult.
He is doing really well at church and always looks forward to his class and playing with friends. After church he comes running to us, telling us all about how much he "loves his friends". My favorite thing he says right now is "Luff you Muschhhhh"(Love you much)
He is trying to grow out of taking a nap during the day, which I'm not quite ready for, but I think those days have passed, unfortunately. 
He just loves having Baby Vaughn come over and is so sad when he has to go home. Owen and Kamden are great helpers and they love to entertain him. Last night we had a Family Home Evening lesson on Noah's Ark, so today they told Vaughn all about it and even had him help gather the animals to save them from the flood.
Apparently, Vaughn was in charge of getting the dragons, cranes, and bats...
Jeff is doing awesome at his new job and we are SO grateful to be living here, close to our family and friends. 

HaLLoWeeN 2o11

Let's pretend that this post isn't 3 months late, and we will all just enjoy the pictures of my Super Heros from Halloween:
 Ethan/Batman
 Kamden/Spiderman
Owen/Superman

SnOw!

It FINALLY snowed last week and we were hoping for a Snow Day for Ethan, but they didn't cancel. Instead I took him to school, despite his protests to stay home, but picked him up an hour early so we could go out and play before it got dark. It was a good thing, since at the time school got out it started to rain and the snow was gone pretty quick. We didn't get a snowman built, so hopefully we see more snow sometime!

Friday, January 6, 2012

Another Month, Another Post

 Another month went by and I obviously slacked in the blogging department. I did, however find some more pictures from Thanksgiving, including the one above of Ethan & Grammie making pies. 
Pudge received a dog house from my aunt, who's dog recently passed away. Their dog was HUGE, so Pudge had a palace. 
Kamden thinks it is so big, that Pudge has room for visitors.
This is where we found Kamden on Thanksgiving.
Thankfully we were able to coax him inside with the promise of a Thanksgiving feast.
 This is where we found my brother, Jeff, after the Thanksgiving feast...
 There were also lots of football games to watch, which we enjoyed being able to have family over again to watch with us, now that we no longer live on a mountain...
The boys thought they would show their team spirit by wearing Uncle Brian's sweatshirt...
We decided to spend Christmas break traveling around Eastern Idaho since Jeff had to work in Twin Falls the week before and Idaho Falls the week after. The morning that we were leaving, we had the boys come upstairs for their Christmas present...
Things I love about this picture:
1) Ethan has his shoes on
2) Kamden is in his undies 
3) Kamden's expression
4)Owen looks like he could fall asleep any moment, but he still made the effort to scratch his belly 
Grammie & Grandpa Van Leuven also brought Christmas early since we were leaving & also because they were heading to Iowa to spend the holidays with my older brother.
The boys loved their gifts, & you can tell by their expressions. 
I especially loved watching Owen's face as he tried to tear the wrapping paper off his gifts, usually only getting a tiny piece of paper each time. 
 
 Tuesday was Ethan's last day before the break, so we picked him up a bit early since he & Kamden both had dentist appointments. Jeff had left that morning for Twin Falls so after the dentist, the boys & I hit the road & met him there. 
We stayed at a hotel Tuesday-Thursday & the boys did so much swimming that their skin was dried out & itchy from the pool chemicals.  
 On Thursday we went to Declo & watched the last BSU game of the season. Other things we did while there:
Owen loved playing the Fish Game 
& getting bundled up to play outside...
 We even spotted some deer, although there weren't nearly as many as in Orofino...
We drove around & looked at Christmas lights, spent time with family (which is why there are no pictures of Ethan...he was busy playing with Addie), & went to dinner with friends.
Thankfully Jeff did not wear this on our night out: 
His dad's shirt from his mission in the Philippines.
On Christmas Eve we went to Jeff's Grandma's house. Every year she has a party & we have never been, the last time Jeff was there was right after his mission.
After dinner the kids dressed up while we listened to the reading of the nativity story from the Bible. Then we sang Christmas songs before Santa stopped by with a gift for everyone...but we all had to sit on his lap before we got our present... 
Owen was not thrilled about it at all...
Then there was a talent show & we eventually were able to tear the boys away from their new-found friends, who are actually Jeff's cousins. But they couldn't quite grasp the concept since they were close to Ethan & Kamden's age.
I had to wake the boys up on Christmas morning so that there was enough time to open gifts before going to church at 9:30.
Jeff & I were on the Naughty List this year.
On Monday we celebrated Ethan's 7th birthday a day early, with the first store-bought cake in our family. Last year I hauled his Star Wars cake to Declo & there was no way I was doing that again. He wanted a Transformer cake & this is what he got.
He went to the store with me & picked it out himself, then he stuck his Transformers on it & it was done! 
Tuesday morning Jeff left early for Idaho Falls & we met him there for lunch. Since it was Ethan's birthday it was his choice & of course we ended up at McDonalds. 
I offered to take them to a movie but all they wanted to do was get to the hotel & swim, so that's what we did until Jeff got done working. Thursday morning they swam again but I was able to get them out of the water for lunch & then we went to the movies. They were back in the pool that evening after dinner & on Thursday morning I packed up the car & we went home. Our plan had been to stay until Friday, but 9 days was all I could do of living out of a suitcase & being in a hotel with these 3 boys.
It was a fun & hectic break but by the time school started back up I was pretty close to being insane. I came to realize the truth behind the line of the song "It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas"  when it says "and mom and dad can hardly wait for school to start again!"  
It's good to be home!